Tuesday, February 20, 2007

ok

so i had alot of fun with someone tonight. but at what point do i cross the line between friendship and not-just-friends? and does it really matter?

:-\ <-- clueless

4 comments:

zyrobyte said...

You don't need to cross any line. Just keep having fun with them and eventually things will happen...hopefully.

Melanie said...

BUT... if he doesn't cross a line, and she likes him as something more than a friend but is just scared to make a move... and he doesn't make a move, she may get the impression that he doesn't like her as more than a friend.

OR he may totally miss the window of opportunity and he will fall into a friendship that can never turn into a romantic relationship.

Does she give clues that she wants more? Don't move too fast, and don't move to slow!!

Jason said...

well maybe i should add to this some:

i don't want to be more than just friends. but i want the perks that come from a relationship. i plan to keep having fun - and i did say to her that i just wanted to remain friends...

without mentioning names... things may make more sense by the weekend....

Anonymous said...

Well if you don't want to be more than friends, then don't cross that line. Stay simply that... friends. DO NOT lead her on in any way. If you guys stay friends, and things just progress naturally, like Chris was saying, then it was meant to happen that way. Do not force yourself, or her, into a relationship that you really only want because of the "perks"