I wonder two things. A) why are guys stereotyped as being unfaithful, and B) why is this stereotype true with at least half of my co workers?
In florida, jeff all but had his tongue down a girl's throat that we met at the bar. He says he's engaged, and he does have a baby by his fiencee. Jaye has a serious girlfriend he's been with for 5 years. Jaye was trying to get the numbers of some of the waitresses in the casino's restaurant. He said his stance is not only the "you're out of town, it doesn't count" but also that he wouldn't cheat on his girl unless he found someone hot enough that it was worth it.
Jaye does actually have a soft side to him. He's the pro-arena football kicker. Last night at the casino when we were talking about stuff that, well, guys talk about, he's not the player I had originally perceived. He says he's only been with like 7 girls. (Jeff says his number is around 75, and my old co worker bryant said he stopped counting 5 yrs ago at 125). Jaye also said he's yet to sleep around on his girl - but he would if he found someone haley berry hot.
Maybe I'm just old fashioned, well, to an extent. If you're not serious, date freely. I don't support sleeping around, just dating freely. If you're serious, then its one girl and one girl only. You can't be changing teams in mid game.
Traveling is well suited for the single guy. I can't wait to get back to see my boo. I presume jaye can't wait to get back to his girl. The single guy can go out to the bars at night looking for tail. I didn't say nothings wrong with that - but he wouldn't be doing someone wrong at home. Even if he just finds someone fun for the evening, or someone to meet up with when passing through - that's fine.
I hate the stereotype about guys that I've been rambling about for 30 mins now. However, the majority of guys I know seem to fall into this stereotype, not trying to debunk it. Ugh.
I'm sure I'll get bored and ramble more later...
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